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I've been complaining about how I always have to be the one initiating connection. Then it hit me. Maybe that's my role. Because I sure as heck am not the person who volunteers to help you move, and my phone is muted between 11pm and 6am, so you can't call in the middle of the night if you're in trouble.
Core Types of Friends
1. The 4am Friend
The one you can call in the middle of the night, no explanations needed. They show up, no questions asked. Deep trust, loyalty, and emotional safety define this bond.
2. The Cheerleader
Always in your corner, always rooting for you, often louder about your success than you are. They radiate belief in you even when you falter.
3. The Truth Teller
They’ll call you out, lovingly but firmly. Not afraid to be honest, even when it’s uncomfortable. They value your growth over your approval.
4. The Shared History Friend
You may not talk every day, but they knew you when. Old school friends, childhood neighbours, or college roommates; your roots are entwined.
5. The Adventure Friend
Always down for a spontaneous trip, wild idea, or new hobby. They push your boundaries in the best way and make life feel expansive.
6. The Practical Helper
They show up with soup, fix your printer, help you move. They express love through action more than words.
7. The Intellectual Companion
Your go-to for deep conversations. You debate, explore, dream, and challenge each other mentally. No topic is too weird or big.
8. The Low-Maintenance Lifeline
You may only talk a few times a year, but when you do, it’s as if no time passed. Zero pressure, full understanding.
9. The Work Buddy
Your ally in the trenches. You might not hang out outside work, but inside the bubble, they’re your confidant and comic relief.
10. The Healing Friend
Someone who came into your life during a hard time. They were balm to your wound, and maybe your friendship grew from shared vulnerability.
11. The Connector
They know everyone. They bring people together, introduce you to new ideas, and widen your world.
12. The Mirror
They’re often on a parallel journey. Parenting, career stage, heartbreak. You grow together and reflect each other’s challenges.
While I identify with several on this list, if I had to pick only one I'd have to go for that last one. And therein lies my problem. With the end of certain stages of life, it seems that friendships don't last much longer either. I'll have to further explore this.
In the meantime... what do you think, which type(s) of friend are you?
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